We’ve been conditioned to think of relationships as 50/50, but truth bomb they seldom are, especially if you look at any given relationship during a slice of time. Relationships are seldom equal because different stressors hit your relationship at different times. Say your partner is sick or loses their job or a loved one. …
The problem with generic advice like, ‘if you don’t hear back from them immediately it means they’re not interested,’ is that you assume that everyone is like you. You presume they have the same texting pace and Love Style that you do In reality, many people are slow to respond because they: Are …
Independent Isabelle feels this deeply. It’s less about avoiding people and more about what is at stake- fear of losing something, your independence. I named my character Independent Isabelle or Ian for that reason. The independent type feels misunderstood because people don’t understand you. They do want to date and hang out but they …
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