The four attachment styles are very different. Depending on your attachment and communication style you will have different needs and wants, especially under stress. It’s important to know who you are, not only so you can work on your edges but so that you understand who your partner is also. Secure Sophia or …
From Fearful to Secure: How to Build Healthy Relationships Read More »
The pursuer/distancer dynamic resembles the anxious and avoidant couple. The pursuer, or the more anxiously attached Nervous type (AKA Nora or Nick), seeks closeness and validation. They might over-share, over-think, and want to connect quickly. Not only do they share about past hurts (see my last reel), they also ask lots of questions and …
The problem with generic advice like, ‘if you don’t hear back from them immediately it means they’re not interested,’ is that you assume that everyone is like you. You presume they have the same texting pace and Love Style that you do In reality, many people are slow to respond because they: Are …
